“You already know. You’re just afraid to admit it.”

Author

Darcy Neumann
July 22, 2025

She’s closer than you think.

Not the you you’ve settled into.

The you, you dream of when no one’s looking.

The one who whispers beneath the noise,

“This can’t be it.” “Who am I now.”

Not because your life is broken —

But because it’s not yet yours.

You’ve given your all — to the roles, the rhythm, the rules.

But what you crave now?

Isn’t just rest.

It’s freedom.

Freedom to take up space without apology.

To lead, love, create — as you are.

To stop asking permission for a life that’s already calling you forward.

The Moment I Knew

There came a moment when I couldn’t deny it anymore:
I was repeating the same emotional patterns, the same stories — over and over.

Not because I didn’t want to change, but because I was unconsciously afraid of what that change would cost me.

What if I really digested the truth?
What if I allowed myself to fully feel it, to repattern it, to let it go?
Who would I become on the other side of that healing?

And even more quietly, beneath it all:
Would the people I love still recognize me?
Would my friends feel left behind?
Would my family still feel safe with the “new” me?

These weren’t easy questions — they were the kind that sit in your belly and tug at your ribs. But they were necessary. Because until I asked them, I couldn’t move forward.

The truth is, the fear of changing is often bigger than the pain of staying the same. And yet, real transformation asks us to risk it anyway.

If you’re feeling this too — afraid of what healing might disrupt — just know:
You’re not alone.
And the real you?
She’s not too much. She’s ready.

Because the truth is:
You don’t get to become her — the woman you keep catching glimpses of in your dreams, your longings, your quiet moments — by staying safe.

You get there by standing at the edge.
Where the old parts of you tremble.
Where the people-pleasing starts to burn off.
Where the real becoming begins.

That’s where I’m inviting you.

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With deep devotion,

Darcy Neumann Soft rebel. Sacred instigator.

Midlife mentor to women ready to lead themselves.